TOMMY LEE & BRITTANY FURLAN SEPARATED, ARGUING OVER HIS DRINKING
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TOMMY LEE & BRITTANY FURLAN SEPARATED, ARGUING OVER HIS DRINKING
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Tommy Lee and Brittany Furlan are separated, possibly heading for divorce, and his drinking is at the center of the split ... TMZ has learned.
Brittany and the Motley Crue drummer have been living separately for the past two weeks ... according to sources close to the couple. We're told Brittany and other people around Tommy feel like his drinking has gotten out of hand, and while they've urged him to get sober ... Tommy's been resistant.
Although the estranged couple is no longer living together, we're told they are still in communication.
There have been some public signs of trouble in their relationship -- Tommy unfollowed his wife on Instagram, and on Thursday, he posted a video of himself in a studio saying he's working on a song called "Stupid Girl."
Our sources say it's unclear, at this point, if either of them intends to file for divorce.
Tommy and Brittany got married in 2019 ... after meeting in 2017, and announcing their engagement in 2018. They don't have any kids together.
We reached out to a rep for Tommy -- no word back yet -- and when we contacted Brittany, she had no comment.
If these kids can't keep it together, what chance do the rest of us have?
Tommy Lee and Brittany Furlan are separated, possibly heading for divorce, and his drinking is at the center of the split ... TMZ has learned.
Brittany and the Motley Crue drummer have been living separately for the past two weeks ... according to sources close to the couple. We're told Brittany and other people around Tommy feel like his drinking has gotten out of hand, and while they've urged him to get sober ... Tommy's been resistant.
Although the estranged couple is no longer living together, we're told they are still in communication.
There have been some public signs of trouble in their relationship -- Tommy unfollowed his wife on Instagram, and on Thursday, he posted a video of himself in a studio saying he's working on a song called "Stupid Girl."
Our sources say it's unclear, at this point, if either of them intends to file for divorce.
Tommy and Brittany got married in 2019 ... after meeting in 2017, and announcing their engagement in 2018. They don't have any kids together.
We reached out to a rep for Tommy -- no word back yet -- and when we contacted Brittany, she had no comment.
If these kids can't keep it together, what chance do the rest of us have?
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Aw. I thought they were soulmates when he ate her booger.
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What are the odds she signed a Prenup?
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I'll be really surprised if Tommy or Vince make it to 70 years old. Mick is already past that and Nikki has 4 years left and seems healthy enough. But Vince is already paying the price and Tommy can't be far behind. These guys have been alcoholics and addicts for over 40 some years and at some point their bodies are gonna tap out. It's gonna happen sooner than later.
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No joke, Vince looks like a dying man. His liver is trying to leave his body. He has carried it to term and it now wants to live its own life, away from him. It HURTS to look at his stomach. He has to be in agony.LitaStrauss wrote: ↑Thu May 15, 2025 4:52 pm I'll be really surprised if Tommy or Vince make it to 70 years old. Mick is already past that and Nikki has 4 years left and seems healthy enough. But Vince is already paying the price and Tommy can't be far behind. These guys have been alcoholics and addicts for over 40 some years and at some point their bodies are gonna tap out. It's gonna happen sooner than later.
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For at least the last 10-15 years, my money’s been on Tommy to croak out first. I feel like destined to DuBrow himself.
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Guess what is next? Tommy and Pam 5.0 … he’s the only man she ever loved.
Any word yet why Vince is or was in the hospital?
I predict its heart or liver, he’d really slowed down on that last tour and wasn’t himself.
Any word yet why Vince is or was in the hospital?
I predict its heart or liver, he’d really slowed down on that last tour and wasn’t himself.
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I feel like if you make it to 70, you died of old age. I have no logic to this at all, I just feel like that's when you can say "Okay, I did it, let's kinda coast from here."
Up until then, nonstop dread of the beyond.
Up until then, nonstop dread of the beyond.
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My grandparents were just getting started at 70.
I’m already toast and on my way out … I won’t even outlive my dad in years and he weighed 375 pounds, smoke 6 packs of cigarettes a day for 40 years, etc.
I’m already toast and on my way out … I won’t even outlive my dad in years and he weighed 375 pounds, smoke 6 packs of cigarettes a day for 40 years, etc.
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Don't get me wrong, I don't think that's at all old. My dad's around that age and easily in better shape than me.Jason Jennifer Leigh wrote: ↑Thu May 15, 2025 5:13 pm My grandparents were just getting started at 70.
I don't know why, that milestone, to me, feels like "Okay, I made it." I'm not suggesting a Logan's Run type situation. Just calm reflection and pride in one's life's work.
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By the way, I'm 10-15 years away from listening to ONLY music made by 70 year olds. The most current band I listen to is maybe 1998? So in no way am I saying "Pack it in! Time's up."
But remember when the Stones were grandpas on the Steel Wheels tour? Mick Jagger was a year older than I am right now.
But remember when the Stones were grandpas on the Steel Wheels tour? Mick Jagger was a year older than I am right now.
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When a man is no longer needed his body will turn against him.
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This is so sad to read. You can't be very old! Hang in there, I mean it. I'm rooting for you, whatever's going on.Jason Jennifer Leigh wrote: ↑Thu May 15, 2025 5:26 pm When a man is no longer needed his body will turn against him.
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Chip Z'Hoy wrote: ↑Thu May 15, 2025 3:58 pm Aw. I thought they were soulmates when he ate her booger.



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Once a loser, always a loser.
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A 62-year-old man.There have been some public signs of trouble in their relationship -- Tommy unfollowed his wife on Instagram, and on Thursday, he posted a video of himself in a studio saying he's working on a song called "Stupid Girl."
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^^^^I am over here in KY rolling on the floor! Man, what a great answer! lolChip Z'Hoy wrote: ↑Thu May 15, 2025 4:56 pmNo joke, Vince looks like a dying man. His liver is trying to leave his body. He has carried it to term and it now wants to live its own life, away from him. It HURTS to look at his stomach. He has to be in agony.LitaStrauss wrote: ↑Thu May 15, 2025 4:52 pm I'll be really surprised if Tommy or Vince make it to 70 years old. Mick is already past that and Nikki has 4 years left and seems healthy enough. But Vince is already paying the price and Tommy can't be far behind. These guys have been alcoholics and addicts for over 40 some years and at some point their bodies are gonna tap out. It's gonna happen sooner than later.
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Does she have enough cache to continue her podcast/stand-up career without being married to Tommy? She appears to be limited in the talent category. She could do OF.
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Tommy is a clown but he’s got money. There’s probably a line of hot young chicks who would line up for him as sad as that is. I say good for him. I don’t know why he would bother getting married anyway. I would just jump from hottie to hottie if I were him. He could probably just go to the Rainbow every night and pull out a different wannabe model. Then in the morning he could send her home in an Uber and never see her again and do whatever he wants without someone telling him what to do. Seems like a deal to me.
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I have a friend that has a couple of marriages under his belt...lol. His motto now is "Feed me, F88k me, then leave me the F88k alone, and it works well for him...Michael Hotts Ghost wrote: ↑Fri May 16, 2025 5:30 am Tommy is a clown but he’s got money. There’s probably a line of hot young chicks who would line up for him as sad as that is. I say good for him. I don’t know why he would bother getting married anyway. I would just jump from hottie to hottie if I were him. He could probably just go to the Rainbow every night and pull out a different wannabe model. Then in the morning he could send her home in an Uber and never see her again and do whatever he wants without someone telling him what to do. Seems like a deal to me.
Tommy could do that the rest of his life with grade A prime chicks. simply because he has the gold and there are a never ending supply of gold diggers. Unless he desires "companionship", which is different. He could hire a live in assistant to be his friend.
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She already does OFHatchets Molly wrote: ↑Fri May 16, 2025 5:17 am Does she have enough cache to continue her podcast/stand-up career without being married to Tommy? She appears to be limited in the talent category. She could do OF.

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Doesn't Tommy as well? I could've swore he had an OF.The Prez wrote: ↑Fri May 16, 2025 7:42 amShe already does OFHatchets Molly wrote: ↑Fri May 16, 2025 5:17 am Does she have enough cache to continue her podcast/stand-up career without being married to Tommy? She appears to be limited in the talent category. She could do OF.![]()
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I saw the pam and tommy video...it has an elbow and its own zip code. I don't need to see his OF site either. lolChip Z'Hoy wrote: ↑Fri May 16, 2025 9:35 amDoesn't Tommy as well? I could've swore he had an OF.The Prez wrote: ↑Fri May 16, 2025 7:42 amShe already does OFHatchets Molly wrote: ↑Fri May 16, 2025 5:17 am Does she have enough cache to continue her podcast/stand-up career without being married to Tommy? She appears to be limited in the talent category. She could do OF.![]()
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Michael Hotts Ghost wrote: ↑Fri May 16, 2025 5:30 am Tommy is a clown but he’s got money. There’s probably a line of hot young chicks who would line up for him as sad as that is. I say good for him. I don’t know why he would bother getting married anyway. I would just jump from hottie to hottie if I were him.
Some guys are just hard-wired to get laid, and Tommy is one of them. Add in the celebrity factor, giant hog, and social proof of locking down prime Pam Anderson, and the options are ridiculous.
His problem is he's always wanted to be in love and get married. He was the first Crue member to get hitched - like when he was 22 or something right as the band was taking off.
I just read that he unfollowed his wife on Instagram. The guy never stops acting like a fourteen-year-old.
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Good for him. Screw this sober nonsense.
It sucks that some people don’t have the ability or self control to enjoy drinking without fucking up their entire lives, but that’s their fault.
It sucks that some people don’t have the ability or self control to enjoy drinking without fucking up their entire lives, but that’s their fault.
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I'll say 80, but maybe for those living the rock lifestyle . . . 70. So how do we explain Keith Richards? Does he drink little vials fo formaldehyde?Chip Z'Hoy wrote: ↑Thu May 15, 2025 5:10 pm I feel like if you make it to 70, you died of old age. I have no logic to this at all, I just feel like that's when you can say "Okay, I did it, let's kinda coast from here."
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Terrific genes of course, but he also credits it to his access to quality drugs.Van Ailin' wrote: ↑Sat May 17, 2025 6:49 amI'll say 80, but maybe for those living the rock lifestyle . . . 70. So how do we explain Keith Richards? Does he drink little vials fo formaldehyde?Chip Z'Hoy wrote: ↑Thu May 15, 2025 5:10 pm I feel like if you make it to 70, you died of old age. I have no logic to this at all, I just feel like that's when you can say "Okay, I did it, let's kinda coast from here."
He basically says: "when I started on hartdrugs I got them from the pharmacy, and afterwards I got the same quality because I'm a rockstar."
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I can't explain guys like that but I think it's a perfect storm of genetics and wealth mixed with maybe a couple sensible choices along the way, like following medical advice. I think he's gradually toned it down over the years, so now he only smokes a little weed.Van Ailin' wrote: ↑Sat May 17, 2025 6:49 amI'll say 80, but maybe for those living the rock lifestyle . . . 70. So how do we explain Keith Richards? Does he drink little vials fo formaldehyde?
Finally quit cigarettes, even. Heroin's for sure more immediately deadly than cigarettes, but boy would I rather have a heroin death. Cancer is nothing short of torture.
But then you got guys like Taylor Hawkins who probably partied a tenth as hard and his body gives out at 50.
Ozzy seemed like he'd be last man standing, but this shit caught up to even him. (Or was the ATV accident the beginning of the end for him? I think all the surgeries wore him down, maybe.)