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when a band member saw you and sent a roadie out to get you?

Yeah, but it's more often been that someone I already knew saw me and brought me a pass, if they didn't leave it at the box office for me.

Yes, a number of times.

I've had band members see me and come find me later...guess they're not paying the crew enough, so they have to do it themselves! Or a cut-out-the-middle-man thing...

When you get picked out it is important to remember that: The only reason you are backstage is to provide sexual satisfaction to the "star". Your feelings, thoughts, sexual satisfaction or health is not important to anyone. Its not an issue.

What matters is your looks, BJ skills.

michelish wrote:my girlfriends and i were picked out at a DLR show in '91. we already had passes so i gave them to some friends i ran into.

GTFO! Same here! Was it at Kingswood?

Yep

EuroKing wrote:When you get picked out it is important to remember that: The only reason you are backstage is to provide sexual satisfaction to the "star". Your feelings, thoughts, sexual satisfaction or health is not important to anyone. Its not an issue.

What matters is your looks, BJ skills.

Actually he sent his wife out to come get us because they were bored and didn't know anyone in that town.

Corabi wrote:I've had band members see me and come find me later...guess they're not paying the crew enough, so they have to do it themselves! Or a cut-out-the-middle-man thing...

Yup same thing for me. Usually at smaller venues/clubs though. I have yet to hit it backstage at a huge arena or anything like that.

of course!

cookie wrote:I was propositioned in a car park by CKY's tour manager.
Would you like to come on the bus?.....
Nah you're ok

Actually Robbie williams did about 3 times on separate occasions when Take that first stared touring in 1991. I said no thanks, I was quite sweet and innocent at 15.

Way way back in the day I turned down an invite to have a pizza party with Donnie Wahlberg and Dannie whatsisname from NKOTB.

Are you mad woman????

I know, I fucking kick myself for it now.
As for Williams, I was on a promise there a long time ago as well but he had a bodyguard who scuppered any plans.

cookie wrote:He does a lot with GIO GOI, last time I was on the phone with the lads he was in a meeting with them shouting down the line. Guy is a loon.

Ever go to the prince of wales in camden town?

Not so much - but I stopped persuing that line of enquiries anyway as last time I saw him he acted like a cock to me.

I am curious about the other gent we've talked about today, just to see what the fuss is about but that will keep.

meh, a little from column A, a little from Column B. Couple of the ones that hang with me manage to combine the two (they don't hook up but they go to shows etc) so it can be done.

Yup!

Haha yes.

cookie wrote:Well yeah, It would probably be an experience.
Im back in a relationship now so missing out on so much.
Opportunities to hang with Plan B, kid british, Chase and status, The prodigy,Deadmau5, The libertines, Thin lizzy. ARGH.
Im not saying they are/would be interested, but It would be fun to hang, and a fella, however awesome is a total hinderance.

Haha this is so true!

cookie wrote:I was propositioned in a car park by CKY's tour manager.
Would you like to come on the bus?.....
Nah you're ok

What year was this? I bet this happened when Vern was in the band

cookie wrote:He does a lot with GIO GOI, last time I was on the phone with the lads he was in a meeting with them shouting down the line. Guy is a loon.

Ever go to the prince of wales in camden town?

I was there a few weeks ago!
To answer the question - yeah, I have. Approached by their tour manager afterwards. Was a fun night.

michelish wrote:my girlfriends and i were picked out at a DLR show in '91. we already had passes so i gave them to some friends i ran into.

So, Tell us about DLR was he fruity?

EuroKing wrote:When you get picked out it is important to remember that: The only reason you are backstage is to provide sexual satisfaction to the "star". Your feelings, thoughts, sexual satisfaction or health is not important to anyone. Its not an issue.

What matters is your looks, BJ skills.

That is actually not true at all. I have had this happen several times and not once was expected or approached for sexual favors and have been on several tours with bands after the fact. I have met several rockers who invite you because they actually enjoy the pleasure of your company in a non-sexual type of way and I have made several friends with rockers and road crew this way as well.

Not all of the girls you see touring with bands and stepping off the tour bus are sleeping with them. Some really ARE just friends who really do tour with them and party with them and are friends with them when they get off the road as well. I will say off topic though I have hooked up with a few rockers in my old days but that was on my own. Not with the invite of a roadie to go back there to fuck them.

Calexxia wrote:Yeah, but it's more often been that someone I already knew saw me and brought me a pass, if they didn't leave it at the box office for me.

Same here.

i am always being picked by the girlbands to go backstage with them

I remember reading a post after a show accusing myself and a friend of walking off with two band members...saying we were their fuck for the night. It pissed me off for some reason. The guys were my friends and they hopped in my car to go back to the hotel. The one sat in the bedroom talking to his girlfriend and the other sat on the sofa watching Welcome Back Kotter. The life of a rockstar...

Just because they are around women doesn't mean they are fucking them.

rawkerfourtyfive wrote:

EuroKing wrote:When you get picked out it is important to remember that: The only reason you are backstage is to provide sexual satisfaction to the "star". Your feelings, thoughts, sexual satisfaction or health is not important to anyone. Its not an issue.

What matters is your looks, BJ skills.

That is actually not true at all. I have had this happen several times and not once was expected or approached for sexual favors and have been on several tours with bands after the fact. I have met several rockers who invite you because they actually enjoy the pleasure of your company in a non-sexual type of way and I have made several friends with rockers and road crew this way as well.

Not all of the girls you see touring with bands and stepping off the tour bus are sleeping with them. Some really ARE just friends who really do tour with them and party with them and are friends with them when they get off the road as well. I will say off topic though I have hooked up with a few rockers in my old days but that was on my own. Not with the invite of a roadie to go back there to fuck them.

rawkerfourtyfive wrote:

EuroKing wrote:When you get picked out it is important to remember that: The only reason you are backstage is to provide sexual satisfaction to the "star". Your feelings, thoughts, sexual satisfaction or health is not important to anyone. Its not an issue.

What matters is your looks, BJ skills.

That is actually not true at all. I have had this happen several times and not once was expected or approached for sexual favors and have been on several tours with bands after the fact. I have met several rockers who invite you because they actually enjoy the pleasure of your company in a non-sexual type of way and I have made several friends with rockers and road crew this way as well.

Not all of the girls you see touring with bands and stepping off the tour bus are sleeping with them. Some really ARE just friends who really do tour with them and party with them and are friends with them when they get off the road as well. I will say off topic though I have hooked up with a few rockers in my old days but that was on my own. Not with the invite of a roadie to go back there to fuck them.

LePetiteDiablo wrote:I remember reading a post after a show accusing myself and a friend of walking off with two band members...saying we were their fuck for the night. It pissed me off for some reason. The guys were my friends and they hopped in my car to go back to the hotel. The one sat in the bedroom talking to his girlfriend and the other sat on the sofa watching Welcome Back Kotter. The life of a rockstar...

Just because they are around women doesn't mean they are fucking them.

Exactly my point! I think it is just jealous women who get rejected by a married or faithful man who think "Oh she is just going to fuck him but why didn't I get picked?" when in fact we go hang out backstage, on the bus or at the hotel eating pizza, watching movies, drinking with nothing sexual involved etc..Some rockers enjoy your friendly company and nothing more. They are entitled to female FRIENDS just as much as anyone else. Besides a lot of those girls you also see back there are SISTERS of band crew and co-workers as well. So women who see girls walking in and out of the backstage area, and on or off the bus, or in and out of a hotel room, or in and out of the car with a rock star, should really check their jealousy at the door, because they may be dissing someones sister, relative, co-worker or just a female friend.

In the late 80's, early 90's, if we WEREN'T picked out of the crowd to go backstage and hang out, it was a rare occurrence, and the concert wasn't complete lol. That was in a venue of about 7,500 seats. Never once had sex with them, either. Drank, hit the local bars, hung out on the buses and stuff though. Some pretty cool memories for a small town girl.

TheScootinator wrote:In the late 80's, early 90's, if we WEREN'T picked out of the crowd to go backstage and hang out, it was a rare occurrence, and the concert wasn't complete lol. That was in a venue of about 7,500 seats. Never once had sex with them, either. Drank, hit the local bars, hung out on the buses and stuff though. Some pretty cool memories for a small town girl.

did u grow up w/ StEvil or know him when u were young?

once he made it in LA, did u regret not fucking him while u had the chance?